You decided to become a sugar baby and have a mature and successful man take care of you as you truly deserve? Well, in this case, we have to congratulate you. At the same time, we would like to offer some guidance, so that your first steps and decisions as a sugar baby will bring only benefits into your life. Yes, being a sugar baby doesn’t seem to be that hard, but the truth is that you will have to deposit some efforts to keep your sugar daddy around. You see, sugar daddies are more than willing to invest time and resources in their sugar babies, but they will have some expectancies in return.
While we are certain you have the charm and presence to help you out when meeting your sugar daddy for the first time, here are several essential aspects you should consider.
- Background research is always recommended
Although the sugar daddy and sugar baby dating scene seems like a secure one, it is always recommended to do proper background research regarding the sugar daddy you are about to meet. The goal is to see if the person behind the sugar daddy profile is indeed real. Believe it or not, there are people who try to take advantage by creating fake profiles. Also, if you’re gut feeling is sensing something strange or awkward, then that’s probably true. So, for your well-being and safety, you should avoid meeting with people that are not making you feel comfortable.
- Choose your meeting location well
Because we are talking about a first meeting, you need to play it save. You never know who is truly behind those charming profile photos and even if your background check turned out okay, it is still worth taking no chances. So, when choosing the location of your meeting, make sure it is a public one. Under no circumstances accept meeting your sugar daddy in a hotel room or private retreat. Don’t be scared or ashamed to refuse such invitations.
If the sugar daddy won’t accept meeting you in a public location, then you’ll just have to find another sugar daddy that is willing to accept your conditions as well. Also, have your own mean of transportation to the set location. And, don’t forget to let a friend know where you go and with whom, out of safety reasons. Until you meet this person, you should take good care of yourself.
- Do your best to impress with your outfit
Let us not forget that men rely very much on their sense of sight. They will always appreciate a woman that looks good and is presentable. So, choose your outfit well for this occasion. Of course, avoid being too sexy and provocative, because you may be sending the wrong kind of message. Your sugar daddy will believe that you’re easy-going, so you may end up facing rather indecent proposals in a very short period. In conclusion, go for an outfit that is feminine and will compliment your body, but without giving away too much.
- Make the conversation interesting and pleasant
Sugar daddies appreciate a sugar baby who is capable of maintaining an interesting, smart, and fun conversation. Because moments of awkward silence may occur at your first meeting, you should think about the topics you could talk about and avoid these moments from happening. A recommendation would be to talk to your sugar daddy in the same manner you would with a friend of yours. So, you could ask him how his day went by and move along from there. You could also consider telling a fun anecdote or anything that may be worthy of mentioning.
You should not forget to maintain eye contact during the conversation. So, looking elsewhere or using your mobile gadget is a big no. Also, don’t forget to smile as often as possible and laugh a lot. Everybody enjoys the presence of a happy and positive person, so make sure to be one around your sugar daddy. As a tip, try not to make the conversation revolve around your person. If your sugar daddy asks questions about you, wishing to know you better, you can answer them. Otherwise, it would be a good idea to show that you’re interested in his life and his person. Ideally, toward the end of the conversation, you should talk about the terms of your arrangement so that each of you is happy.
- Be genuine, honest, and direct
Most certainly you want to do your best to impress your sugar daddy. However, make sure you’re not overdoing it. Just be yourself, a warm and friendly person without exaggerating with your laughter, voice tone, and reactions. Be relaxed and comfortable, just like when meeting one of your friends. If you try too hard, it will be visible and that might make your sugar daddy a bit uncomfortable.
Also, it may be worth keeping in mind that a sugar daddy is usually a very busy person. He may have businesses to handle because success and fortune don’t come easy at all. So, don’t cut the corners when dealing with him. Be direct when it comes to what you want and how you see things working out. Of course, listen to his terms as well and see whether you can respect them. After all, we are talking about a mutual agreement.
- Make the sugar daddy feel comfortable in your presence
The success of a first meeting depends on whether you two feel comfortable in the presence of each other. While it is normal to feel a certain degree of nervousness, do not allow it to take over your meeting. If you feel nervous, your sugar daddy will feel as well, and the meeting may not come out as expected. So, take the time to relax before the meeting and do your best to maintain the same mindset during the meeting as well.
- End the meeting by making him wanting more time with you
Considering that this is just a first date, you shouldn’t stay out for too long. Even if the date is going great and you’re having a great time together, don’t take it longer than an hour or two. If things are going great between the two of you, your sugar daddy may suggest continuing the date, but it would be better to end the date without pursuing his proposal. The idea is to make him want to see you again soon. Also, a sugar baby, your time is precious, so you should not give it away too easily, especially if you two haven’t set all the terms of your arrangement.