How to Prepare for Meeting a Real Sugar Daddy for The First Time

the first meeting in a restaurant

You decided to become a sugar baby and have a mature and successful man take care of you as you truly deserve? Well, in this case, we have to congratulate you. At the same time, we would like to offer some guidance, so that your first steps and decisions as a sugar baby will bring only benefits into your life. Yes, being a sugar baby doesn’t seem to be that hard, but the truth is that you will have to deposit some efforts to keep your sugar daddy around. You see, sugar daddies are more than willing to invest time and resources in their sugar babies, but they will have some expectancies in return.

While we are certain you have the charm and presence to help you out when meeting your sugar daddy for the first time, here are several essential aspects you should consider.

  • Background research is always recommended

Although the sugar daddy and sugar baby dating scene seems like a secure one, it is always recommended to do proper background research regarding the sugar daddy you are about to meet. The goal is to see if the person behind the sugar daddy profile is indeed real. Believe it or not, there are people who try to take advantage by creating fake profiles. Also, if you’re gut feeling is sensing something strange or awkward, then that’s probably true. So, for your well-being and safety, you should avoid meeting with people that are not making you feel comfortable.

  • Choose your meeting location well

Because we are talking about a first meeting, you need to play it save. You never know who is truly behind those charming profile photos and even if your background check turned out okay, it is still worth taking no chances. So, when choosing the location of your meeting, make sure it is a public one. Under no circumstances accept meeting your sugar daddy in a hotel room or private retreat. Don’t be scared or ashamed to refuse such invitations.

If the sugar daddy won’t accept meeting you in a public location, then you’ll just have to find another sugar daddy that is willing to accept your conditions as well. Also, have your own mean of transportation to the set location. And, don’t forget to let a friend know where you go and with whom, out of safety reasons. Until you meet this person, you should take good care of yourself.

  • Do your best to impress with your outfit

Let us not forget that men rely very much on their sense of sight. They will always appreciate a woman that looks good and is presentable. So, choose your outfit well for this occasion. Of course, avoid being too sexy and provocative, because you may be sending the wrong kind of message. Your sugar daddy will believe that you’re easy-going, so you may end up facing rather indecent proposals in a very short period. In conclusion, go for an outfit that is feminine and will compliment your body, but without giving away too much.

  • Make the conversation interesting and pleasant

Sugar daddies appreciate a sugar baby who is capable of maintaining an interesting, smart, and fun conversation. Because moments of awkward silence may occur at your first meeting, you should think about the topics you could talk about and avoid these moments from happening. A recommendation would be to talk to your sugar daddy in the same manner you would with a friend of yours. So, you could ask him how his day went by and move along from there. You could also consider telling a fun anecdote or anything that may be worthy of mentioning.

You should not forget to maintain eye contact during the conversation. So, looking elsewhere or using your mobile gadget is a big no. Also, don’t forget to smile as often as possible and laugh a lot. Everybody enjoys the presence of a happy and positive person, so make sure to be one around your sugar daddy. As a tip, try not to make the conversation revolve around your person. If your sugar daddy asks questions about you, wishing to know you better, you can answer them. Otherwise, it would be a good idea to show that you’re interested in his life and his person. Ideally, toward the end of the conversation, you should talk about the terms of your arrangement so that each of you is happy.

  • Be genuine, honest, and direct

Most certainly you want to do your best to impress your sugar daddy. However, make sure you’re not overdoing it. Just be yourself, a warm and friendly person without exaggerating with your laughter, voice tone, and reactions. Be relaxed and comfortable, just like when meeting one of your friends. If you try too hard, it will be visible and that might make your sugar daddy a bit uncomfortable.

Also, it may be worth keeping in mind that a sugar daddy is usually a very busy person. He may have businesses to handle because success and fortune don’t come easy at all. So, don’t cut the corners when dealing with him. Be direct when it comes to what you want and how you see things working out. Of course, listen to his terms as well and see whether you can respect them. After all, we are talking about a mutual agreement.

  • Make the sugar daddy feel comfortable in your presence

The success of a first meeting depends on whether you two feel comfortable in the presence of each other. While it is normal to feel a certain degree of nervousness, do not allow it to take over your meeting. If you feel nervous, your sugar daddy will feel as well, and the meeting may not come out as expected. So, take the time to relax before the meeting and do your best to maintain the same mindset during the meeting as well.

  • End the meeting by making him wanting more time with you

Considering that this is just a first date, you shouldn’t stay out for too long. Even if the date is going great and you’re having a great time together, don’t take it longer than an hour or two. If things are going great between the two of you, your sugar daddy may suggest continuing the date, but it would be better to end the date without pursuing his proposal. The idea is to make him want to see you again soon. Also, a sugar baby, your time is precious, so you should not give it away too easily, especially if you two haven’t set all the terms of your arrangement.


Happy older Man Smiling With Young Woman

Sugar daddy dating has quickly become the rage in society today. Financially buoyant older men who are looking for a relationship without all the drama and hassle go for this option.

Relationships are so old school. Having a mutually beneficial business arrangement with beautiful ladies is the new thing. 

 Before deciding to become a sugar daddy, you need to know quite a few things. Ready? Let’s begin!

Who is a Sugar Daddy? 

A Sugar Daddy

A sugar daddy is usually an older man who is financially buoyant and can afford to take care of the needs of his sugar baby in exchange for affection and intimacy. Many people often mistake sugar daddy relationships with prostitution and escort services. Both aren’t remotely the same kinds of relationships.

Why? Sugar daddies have a relationship with their sugar babies. They give them gifts and money to take care of them in response to their care of him.

How does the Sugar Daddy Relationship Work?

In a typical sugar daddy relationship, the sugar daddy plays the role of a fatherly figure, albeit a romantic one. He cares for the needs of his sugar baby, which includes but isn’t limited to paying her bills and giving her money. In return, the sugar baby takes care of the sugar daddy by either intimacy or companionship.

3 Qualities of a Good Sugar Daddy 

Having money is vital if you want to be a sugar daddy. But then there is more to every relationship than being able to take care of your partner’s needs. Even the richest sugar daddy won’t enjoy good relations with every sugar baby he has if he doesn’t have the following qualities.

1. Respect

The Sugar Daddy Relationship is built on a foundation of mutual respect. The Sugar baby respects the choices and preferences of the sugar daddy, and he does the same for her. If this respect exists in their relationship, they will last longer as a couple.

As a sugar daddy, you should never make your sugar baby feel bad or disrespected because you pay for her time. It’s a business arrangement between both parties for mutual pleasure, and mutual respect is integral

2. Communication

Just like every relationship, the sugar daddy relationship demands communication and openness. Every sugar daddy has to have excellent communication skills to avoid easily avoidable issues.

Communication is even more important when you have a new sugar baby because you are both trying to understand yourselves. Your new sugar baby might feel guarded around you for the first few months. And it is your duty as her sugar daddy to open up active lines of communication between you.

Communication helps you know your sugar baby’s needs as well as lets her know your own needs.

3. Patience and Understanding

A sugar daddy needs to be patient and understanding with his sugar baby. Most sugar babies are young and would make mistakes in the course of your relationship. New sugar babies are even more prone to these mistakes.

As the older one in your relationship, you should be patient and understanding of her age and inexperience. It is up to you to teach your sugar baby all she needs to know about pleasing you, and without patience, that task would be left unfulfilled.

Things to do Before Becoming a Sugar Daddy

You need to consider some things before going into the sugar daddy dating lifestyle with all enthusiasm. These things include: 

  • Your financial situation
  • What you want out of a sugar daddy relationship
  • Qualities you want in your sugar baby 
  • The right Sugar Daddy meet agency to use 
  • What should be on your profile 
  • How to pick the right Sugar baby for you

How to Be a Good Sugar Daddy

A sugar baby sits on the legs of a sugar daddy

It isn’t just about having money to take care of a sugar baby’s needs; there is a lot more effort that goes into being not just a sugar daddy but a good one.

1. Don’t break the Sugar Daddy Relationship Rules 

Some rules guide the sugar daddy dating. Sugar daddy dating, just like every other traditional relationship functions better on a few rules that might be grounds for an exit from the relationship by either party. 

The sugar daddy dating rule book contains set rules that both parties have to agree to and abide by for the duration of their relationship. Ignoring any of the rules on the sugar daddy dating relationship can be grounds for ending the relationship.

2. Be attentive and understanding 

There is never too much attention for a sugar baby provided that the attention is healthy. Nothing makes a sugar baby more secure in her relationship than an attentive and understanding sugar daddy.

The benefits go both ways a sugar baby who is receiving enough attention and understanding would give the same back to her sugar daddy. Pay attention to her moods, which makes her happy or sad, and take care of her problems. Your sugar baby won’t be able to get enough of you.

3. Don’t make Your Sugar Baby Uncomfortable

Some Sugar daddies end up making their sugar babies feel very comfortable either with their demands or by the way they treat them. No good sugar daddy ever makes his sugar baby uncomfortable. On the contrary, good sugar daddies try hard to see that their sugar babies feel very comfortable with them.

If your sugar baby feels relaxed with you, she’ll tell you things about her life. This would create a deeper bond between you and make your relationship even more enjoyable. Comfortable sugar babies also go the extra mile to see to it that their sugar daddies are also as comfortable as they have been made.  

4. Buy Her Gifts

What are the magic words for a great sugar daddy dating relationship? Gifts, gifts, and more gifts. In addition to taking care of her bills and giving her money for her upkeep, buy her surprise gifts. These gifts make her feel special and cared for, and you, a great sugar daddy. 

Don’t waste too much time worrying, sign up with our agency today and meet young, gorgeous sugar babies who are just waiting to take care of your every need.